I dont know if this was meant to be cute or funny or something, I know my blog is not safe for work and all and I do occasionally if im in the mood answer anons like these in a sexual, quirky or promiscuous way but I found this really quite offensive,
it doesnt really matter whether you could give me better “hickeys” because if someone I didn’t love for instance gave me a hickey, it would mean shit to me. Absolutely nothing.
for one, technically, hickeys are simply bruises. I don’t really care who can bruise me “best”, for example a complete stranger could leave marks on my neck and it wouldnt be a good thing, I wouldn’t want that. I don’t want that. It’d be more of a negative thing than anything and I wouldn’t at all look at my neck and feel happy about it.
I love my boyfriend, I’m /in/ love with my boyfriend, I dont want it any other way and I don’t want anyone else leaving marks on my neck. I trust him, I let him do that, because I care about him, I care about what we have and when I see said marks it just reminds me of it, so its a good thing, the best thing, it makes me smile and it makes me incredibly happy
I’ve let people do things to me in the past where I didn’t care about the person who I was letting do these things to my body, that resulted in me being sexually assaulted because he thought I was enjoying it, regardless of how many times I said I didn’t want to and I wasn’t comfortable with it. I let this happen because I didn’t think I was good enough, I didn’t value the trust you need to have with someone to allow them and feel okay and enjoy them doing those things to you. I had to go to school and class and public with marks all over my body, covering them because I was literally so ashamed of what I’ve done and let it happen, wondering why I didn’t value myself more and how I could be so unnecessarily stupid,
my boyfriend has taught me so much, I feel like im worth something, and that I mean more than what I thought I did, and for you to say that, it’s not really that okay, considering I have a pretty good idea as to who sent this. I’m not an idiot.
thankyou and goodnight
this is the most romantic thing i’ve seen all day
No shit. That tom cat was like:
"This thorn invested wall means nothing."
"I will gladly walk on it a thousand times over, if that means I could be with you, my lady."
and the lady cat was all:
"My brave darling."
OOOPS MY HAND SLIPPED!!
Suddenly my muse insisted me to draw the personification version of the last pic, and who am I to reject inspiration when it comes so willingly to me? At least this will help with the artblock issue I currently have to deal with.
Russian imperial era inspired because hot damn.
Note: I tried google reverse image (and other reverse image search engines) those photos and came up with nothing. I wish I knew the original photographer because I want to love hug him/her so hard for capturing such inspiring moments.
OMG that’s the cutest thing ever and the best courtly love ah so brilliant.
Few romantic heroes could do better.
I don’t post cats often but that illustration.
love notes written in flesh~~
fff more like im lucky to have him!!
and all mine
but thank you dearest anon xx
my boyfriend gives the best hickeys /).(\ <3
luckily im a master of concealer and foundation
do you ever start your period and think
"well that explains a lot"
more emotional than the notebook
i keep forgetting that’s a grown man posing as an australian teenage school girl